because you all love the baby news...
so, apparently my brother and sister-in-law are embroiled in the epic battle of "which way will we spell katelyn/kaitlyn/caitlyn/caitlin? and if we spell it caitlin, can we call her catie? will anyone ever spell that properly?"
my brother is in the "katie with a k" camp, based on a principle he refers to as "ending the cycle of pain." you see, i'm not the only one in my family with a nontraditionally spelled name. my brother's name is mathew, with only one t. so, both of us, for our entire lives, have introduced ourselves as "stefanie with an f" or "mathew, with only one t" and damn, it gets tiring, because most of the time people don't bother to ask. so, since katelyn is the most common spelling of the name, and it's probably the way that people will write the name if they don't ask, he wants to make her life simple. my sister in law should agree with this, since her name is chelle, pronounced "shelly." yeah, i know.
in situations like this, i feel conflicted, because i want to agree with my sister-in-law because she's a woman, and my brother is usually wrong. but, as stefanie with an f, i have to go with my brother on this one. i don't know how someone with name afflictions like ours could in good conscience commit a child to a lifetime of introducing herself as "catie with a c. no, with a c. no, C-A-T-I-E."
also, if her name is katie turner, then her name is katie, and her initials are KT. and that's cute.
of course, my ultimate preference is for them to name her emma.
thoughts?